Feeling Secure in Relationships

Most of us come to a time in life in which something happens in our relationships that rubs us the wrong way. We get shaken up by these things and start to question our security or worth in the relationship. This feeling can spread fast and entice us to keep reliving the negative experiences that we have had.

When those times of vulnerability and lack of security come they are strong reminders to let us know that we are not living the happiest life that we know is possible and we are challenged.



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Know that to regain security is to experience that through yourself. Know that worth comes from inside first. As begrudging as it can become, especially if it is happening time and time again, remembering this is the first step to getting our pep back.

Do whatever you have to do to get it back. Selfishness is important. Without the proper level of selfishness there is no true sharing of the self, there is no real selflessness. Sharing yourself becomes a burden, being selfless becomes a monotonous task. Neither of these things have to be experienced as such.

Life changes all the time. Nothing is stagnant. The cycle continues. Take undesirable experiences as a cue to get yourself together. Come back to who you are so that you can share yourself joyfully and be of service from the heart.